Bear Essentials helping children cope with parental cancer Missouri Baptist Medical Center, St Louis, Missouri, 63131
Professional Facilitator Information : Themes
Family Memories

Circle:

  • Name tags should be available so each child can create one for himself or herself upon arrival
  • Chairs should be arranged so that children sit in a circle
  • A teddy bear should be placed on each chair
  • The group leader begins the circle session by welcoming the children and reviewing the purpose of the group
  • The leader introduces the theme for the evening
  • Each child is asked to introduce himself or herself, give his or her age and tell the group who it is they love who has cancer (mom, dad or other)

Purpose of Session:
This session concentrates on recalling recent family memories. Discuss how different types of memories -- both sad and happy -- can help us.

Activity:
Leaders should choose an activity:

  1. Memory game
    • Use flash cards that ask children to:
    • Name a smell that reminds you of when you were younger
    • Name a word to describe your mother or father
    • Name a picture that reminds you of family
    • List responses on a chalkboard or flip chart
  2. Bring a cassette recorder and have each child list, on tape, words to bring out his or her favorite memories

Story:
The Family Memory Book

Craft:
  1. Memory scrapbook/journal:
    • Make a five-to-eight-page booklet from construction paper
    • punch holes in the construction paper and connect pages with yarn
  2. Treasure box:
    Have children decorate a box with lid using:
    • Colors
    • Paint buttons
    • Shells
    • Ribbon

    Tell the children that they now have a treasure box they can fill with items they want to remember
Refreshments:
Gingerbread cookies Milk

Session Held:
Any time