Bear Essentials helping children cope with parental cancer Missouri Baptist Medical Center, St Louis, Missouri, 63131
Professional Facilitator Information : Themes
Love

Circle:

  • Name tags should be available so each child can create one for himself or herself upon arrival
  • Chairs should be arranged so that children sit in a circle
  • A teddy bear should be placed on each chair
  • The group leader begins the circle session by welcoming the children and reviewing the purpose of the group
  • The leader introduces the theme for the evening
  • Each child is asked to introduce himself or herself, give his or her age and tell the group who it is they love who has cancer (mom, dad or other)

Purpose of Session:
This session concentrates on the discussion that "love never goes away." The leader should ask the children to talk about their families, identifying situations when parents may be unhappy, upset or not feeling well. Using these situations, the leader should help the children understand that no matter what happens, they are still loved.

Then reverse the theme. Discuss how the children feel when they have the same feelings. Continue to include each person's individual gifts and explain all the different ways we show love.

Activity:
Leaders should choose an activity:

  1. Love hearts:
    • After the discussion, the group gathers around an almost life-sized paper body
    • Each child is asked to give an example of how he or she has felt unloved
    • Send each child to check the pocket over the heart Here they find a "love heart" that reads "love never goes away." Be sure to place enough "love hearts" in the pocket for the entire group
  2. A large puzzle of a bear with a heart is put together piece-by-piece by the children, which demonstrates each child contributes to the group

Story:
The Kissing Hand

Craft:
To make Valentine heart pouches, have the children:
  • Make two hearts out of felt
  • Stitch them together to make a pouch
  • Decorate the pouches as they wish using:
    • Glitter
    • Beads
    • Sequins
    • Puffballs
  • Create coupons with love messages on them to put in pouch

Refreshments:
Cherry-chocolate heart cookies Hawaiian punch

Session Held:
February