Bear Essentials helping children cope with parental cancer Missouri Baptist Medical Center, St Louis, Missouri, 63131
Professional Facilitator Information : Themes
Giving

Circle:

  • Name tags should be available so each child can create one for himself or herself upon arrival
  • Chairs should be arranged so that children sit in a circle
  • A teddy bear should be placed on each chair
  • The group leader begins the circle session by welcoming the children and reviewing the purpose of the group
  • The leader introduces the theme for the evening
  • Each child is asked to introduce himself or herself, give his or her age and tell the group who it is they love who has cancer (mom, dad or other)

Purpose of Session:
This session concentrates on teaching the children about giving. Discuss different types of gifts that the children can give to their parents; such as hugs, quiet time, un-requested help or time for reading together. Then, discuss how one feels after "giving."

Activity:
Leaders should choose an activity:

  1. Have the children create "giving-related" Thanksgiving coupons to give to family members
  2. Allow the children to act out the story of the Pilgrims and Indians using props. A narrator will read a Thanksgiving Day story
  3. Decorate a gift basket to give to a homeless shelter

Story:
Thanksgiving Day

Craft: The leader should bring props for the Thanksgiving play such as:

  • Foods found at a Thanksgiving feast (plastic "play" food is suggested)
  • Acorns
  • Fall leaves
The children should make props for the play, such as:
  • Pilgrim hats (male and female)
  • American Indian headdress
  • Pilgrim and American Indian clothing

Refreshments:
Popcorn
Apple juice

Session Held:
November