Bear Essentials helping children cope with parental cancer Missouri Baptist Medical Center, St Louis, Missouri, 63131
Professional Facilitator Information : Themes
Feelings

Circle:

  • Name tags should be available so each child can create one for himself or herself upon arrival
  • Chairs should be arranged so that children sit in a circle
  • A teddy bear should be placed on each chair
  • The group leader begins the circle session by welcoming the children and reviewing the purpose of the group
  • The leader introduces the theme for the evening
  • Each child is asked to introduce himself or herself, give his or her age and tell the group who it is they love who has cancer (mom, dad or other)

Purpose of Session:
This session concentrates on the discussion of feelings. Children are asked to describe and give examples of different feelings they experience:

  • Happiness
  • Sadness
  • Confusion
  • Depression
  • Loneliness

Talk about comfortable and uncomfortable feelings and how people can have more than one feeling at a time. These exercises should help the children understand that all feelings are okay.

Activity:
Leaders should choose an activity:
  1. Use a felt board and demonstrate faces with different emotions. Ask the children to identify the feeling and place it on the felt board
  2. Ask each child to write down an unwanted feeling. These are then attached to a balloon and let go. The essence of "letting go" is vital
  3. Use faces with different expressions and have the children take turns picking an expression to act out. Have the group identify the expression

Story:
Double Dip Feelings

Craft:
  1. Inside/outside feelings:
    • The children should decorate two paper plates -- one with a comfortable feeling, the other with an uncomfortable feeling
    • Glue back to back
    • Use a tongue depressor for a holder
  2. Decorate pudding cups with candies, cherries and raisins

Refreshments:
Pudding cups -- bring extras in case children want to show their decorated cup to their parents

Session Held:
Any time